Finding Your Own Personal Greatness
I just read an interesting article about what it takes to be great. A different take on the notion of greatness and success and a worthwhile read. I agree with most of it: Being consistent, Doing the work that’s boring, Instant success isn’t the same as greatness, Success is never linear, Before you can be […]
Read MoreHow to Raise a Creative Child
I just read an eye-opening article titled How to Raise a Creative Child. The ideas and research discussed in the article challenge the conventional wisdom on how to raise children who will be creative and successful. The article argues that the ‘drill and kill’ and early specialization approaches to child development are counterproductive to innovative and […]
Read MoreKids Do Better in School Without Smartphones
Here’s an interesting article describing research that should come as no surprise to anyone. Students do better in school when smartphones are banned. The distraction and the opportunity costs (time spent on smartphones is time not spent studying or paying attention in class) are obvious.
Read MoreThe Ultimate Price of Our Hyper-Achievement Culture
A truly tragic story of Madison Holleran, a U. of Penn student and track athlete, who committed suicide in early 2014. On the surface, she was a happy, and successful young woman. But inside there was turmoil. It reminds me of Sarah Devens, another star student-athlete, this time at Dartmouth (I wonder if the fact that […]
Read MoreThe High Cost of Pushing Your Kids Too Hard
A really painful article about how the hyper-achievement culture of ‘only the best is good enough’ that is engulfing America’s children is causing real problems for young people these days.
An important read for every parent who wants their children to be successful (which is pretty much every parent).
How and how hard are you pushing your children? At what cost?
Read MoreEating Marshmallows Doesn’t Predict Future Success
Many of you may be familiar with the famous “marshmallow” experiments conducted by the psychologist Walter Mischel in 1960s and ’70s. In the studies, 4-year-old children have two marshmallows (or another treat) placed in front of them and told that they can either eat one right away or wait to eat two when the researcher […]
Read MoreHow to Build Healthy Self-Esteem in Your Children
I was recently interviewed for this article on how to develop self-esteem in your children. The writer did a nice job of covering all of the bases.
Read MoreThree Steps to Ski Racing Success
Greetings from Loveland, Colorado, where John Hale and his crew have done another remarkable job of creating mid-season training conditions by the middle of October. As I am out here helping prepare a variety of racers for a very busy early season of races, I have been thinking a great deal about what it takes […]
Read MoreDo You Send “Dark” Messages of Love to Your Children?
Of course you love your children and would never consciously reward your children with love and attention when they, for example, first sit up or walk, score their first goal, or get an A on a school test, or punish their failures with anger or rejection. The challenge is to become aware of the unconscious, […]
Read MoreSports/Business: Is Goal Setting Over-rated?
I’ve have found it to be so. Here’s an interesting take on goal setting:
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