It’s hard to believe, but we’ll be back on snow in Colorado in just over a month and that rollercoaster ride called another winter of ski racing is about to begin again. I’m especially excited about this winter because I’ve recently accepted a faculty position at the University of Denver, so I’ll be around the Rocky Mountains a lot in the next nine months (FYI, for the coming school year, I’ll be commuting every other week from San Francisco and staying for three days per visit. In early 2012, I’ll decide whether I like the job and then my wife and I will decide whether to relocate to Colorado permanently).<\/p>\n
In any event, I hope you parents have been doing your best to support your young racers during the off season. I thought I would start off my new season of writing with a review of what I talked to you about last winter. That will provide you with a “refresher course” on what I believe it takes to be a good ski-racing parent (I’m not looking for great; sometimes good is good enough). I’ve also attached links to my articles from last year in case you want to review them in more depth.<\/p>\n
1.\u00a0 Set healthy expectations <\/a>and goals that focus on fun, effort, and long-term development.<\/p>\n 2.\u00a0 Know what your and your children’s a responsibilities<\/a> are and make sure you’re doing your job and not theirs.<\/p>\n 3.\u00a0 Ensure that your young racers strive for excellence<\/a> rather than perfection.<\/p>\n 4.\u00a0 Allow your children to fail<\/a>, so they will learn from it and not fear it.<\/p>\n 5.\u00a0 Put your children in situations in which they will feel challenged<\/a> not overmatched.<\/p>\n 6.\u00a0 Praise your children<\/a> in ways that will foster real self-esteem and confidence.<\/p>\n 7.\u00a0 Raise children who are “successful achievers,” <\/a>meaning they have self-esteem, ownership, and emotional mastery.<\/p>\n 8.\u00a0 Regardless of whether your children are so-called gifted or not<\/a>, always focus on their effort.<\/p>\n 9.\u00a0 Be sensitive to how success impacts your young racers<\/a>.<\/p>\n 10. Allow your children to experience disappointment <\/a>and other less-pleasant emotions.<\/p>\n Next week, I’ll offer a Last Year in Review for the racers. Then, I’ll get back in the saddle and alternate weeks of parent and racer advice on the psychology of ski racing with a new periodic focus on coaches. And I welcome your article topic suggestions. Questions? Feel free to email me at jim@drjimtaylor.com.<\/p>\n Follow me on\u00a0Facebook<\/a>,\u00a0Twitter<\/a>, or\u00a0YouTube<\/a>. Watch my 2010 Winter Olympics Discovery Channel interview on fear in high-risk winter sports\u00a0here<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" It’s hard to believe, but we’ll be back on snow in Colorado in just over a month and that rollercoaster ride called another winter of ski racing is about to begin again. I’m especially excited about this winter because I’ve recently accepted a faculty position at the University of Denver, so I’ll be around the […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1516],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5050","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ski-racing"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.drjimtaylor.com\/4.0\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5050","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.drjimtaylor.com\/4.0\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.drjimtaylor.com\/4.0\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.drjimtaylor.com\/4.0\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.drjimtaylor.com\/4.0\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5050"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.drjimtaylor.com\/4.0\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5050\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.drjimtaylor.com\/4.0\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5050"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.drjimtaylor.com\/4.0\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5050"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.drjimtaylor.com\/4.0\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5050"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}